Random Rambling

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim. Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

Lama dah aku tak post something kat sini. Hah. Rasa macam dah tak penting je lagi blog ni.

Why? Dalam hidup aku dah tak ada cerita nak dicoretkan ke?

Well, not really. Cuma, aku tak tau nak tulis apa. Aku tak tau nak cakap apa.

You see, makin lama aku tak jenguk blog ni, sepatutnya aku semakin rindu + tak sabar-sabar nak tulis dalam ni.

But now, it seems that I’ve lost the spirit.

Why, you ask?

I don’t know myself. But maybe this blog is beginning to get more and more dull. Well, speaking of which, there IS nothing interesting in here.

Exactly. That’s my point.

At one time of your life, you will feel like you are insignificant enough. You aren’t needed enough. I mean, of course your parents and your close friends would feel like you’re important to them and all, but that just it. Nothing more, nothing less. They will still, and will stay, forever you parents and friends, and just that.

Well, I don’t know. Maybe this is good for me, maybe this is what I want. Or maybe not.

Then what do you do? How do you solve this insignificant feeling you have?

Go and find someone to acknowledge the importance of your existence?

 

Finding someone who admire you like you’re the only one in their life?

Oh.

Sounds like love to me.

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So are you ready?

Accepting another to really be a part of you life?

But that’s it. When you come to think of it, that’s the real problem, the root problem of why marriage wouldn’t succeed. You see, when you, kind of, ‘accept’ someone into your life, you would’ve been happy because you think that your life is going to be on bed of roses for eternity. But always, always remember. Every good thing comes with a price.

Remember. Your other half, is also a human being. Thus, he/she would’ve need to live his/her own life, not forgetting to mention, having desires that may’ve been totally opposite of what we want. This, could be a reason behind a marital fight.

Second point is the thing that I’ve always been afraid of. I want to run away from it in so many instances now, but I barely manage to escape, not even once. It seems that I’ve failed to avoid or or even say ‘no’ to it. That is, responsibility. Now, now. This is one tough, tricky chick. Having accepted it may’ve bring benefits and advantages to you, but now that you have it, you’ll also have to take care of it.

Having another person entering your life, doesn’t that mean he/she is also under your responsibility now? Now that you need to take care not to hurt his/her feelings, remember what they like and dislike, be good with their families and friends and all…etc. etc. Ahh…there. Your responsibility has just piled up to a hill when you marry.

Now there’s one person, a friend of mine told me that people in love would never feel heavy to do something for their loved ones. Well, I guess that’s true. When you love someone you wouldn’t feel difficult at all trying to put up with him/her. You would even die for him/her. Tanggungjawab cinta, just like what my friend said. And I said, I don’t understand.

 

I …don’t understand.

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Well then, I guess you wouldn’t be married if you’re not ready to accept those responsibilities yet. You shouldn’t be. Once you are truly prepared, however, that’s when love suddenly comes knocking you heart’s door.

Objection!

P/S: Pictures, credits to Nintendo DS Phoenix Wright series